BDSM Escorts and the Tools of Their Trade |
| Date Added: July 02, 2011 09:59:55 AM |
| More than any other type of escort, a BDSM escort’s equipment is paramount to her the success in her chosen field. Especially when performing in the dominant role (often known as a dominatrix), the equipment and toys brought to bear have a direct impact on the quality of the session and in turn the amount of money able to be made. In this article we will highlight some of the BDSM escort’s tools of the trade, as well as some of those that may not be more obscure. Hopefully by the end of it you will have a few great ideas on how you can improve your own performance in the business. As would be expected (the “B” in BDSM stands for Bondage), bonds and restraints are very important in BDSM work. Chains and ropes and the like are a mainstay of practice. They are a versatile instrument and can be used for a variety of purposes. The most popular is simple immobilization, but they can also be used for binding limbs to induce pain or even choking. However, ropes and chains can also leave tell-tale marks. As a BDSM escort this may or may not be desirable depending upon your clientele. Alternate binding methods that you could use are silt scarves and ropes or perhaps even rubber hoses. While these kinds of bonds still get the job done, they also leave behind fewer ligature and friction marks. Another essential part of a BDSM escorts art is flagellation, which is to say, the art of beating another person. It is a common belief that just about any instrument is as good as another for this purpose. But don’t be deceived. Of course, your standard far like riding crops and whips have their place, but they can also be very one dimensional. The escort that relies too heavily upon these instruments can quickly become stale. But finding a new tool for your craft isn’t as hard as you would think it is. You can find great implements just about anywhere. For instance the kitchen of your own home can be very fruitful to the imaginative escort. Wooden spoons or spatulas and many other culinary accoutrements can also be employed by a BDSM escort for the whipping of someone’s backside. A car antenna or the length of an electrical cord also provides great whipping tools. Each has their own benefits, each with their own peculiar notes of pain. You would also be amazed at how much pain can be teased out of a client with the adept implementation of a switch or similar instrument of childhood discipline. As always, though, different clients expect different experiences from their BDSM escorts, so you should try to precisely understand their expectations before determining which flagellation implements to use. Another category of implements to consider are gags or other mouth apparatus. For individuals who enjoy being tied up and abused (or who enjoy doing the tying up and abusing), using BDSM implements on their mouths is often essential to their enjoyment. Truly, nothing else is quite as unnerving or incapacitating as loss of speech. It is the primary way we communicate with those around us, and taking away that ability often times has the unnerving or encapsulating feeling that many people crave from their experience. BDSM escorts have a variety of tools at their disposal which will meet the same end. A simple handkerchief or length of cloth used as a gag is often effective, but more exotic tools are also available. There are ball-gags (literally a rubbery ball that is strapped on the person’s mouth), bits and bridles (almost exactly the same as a bit that would be used on a horse), and even full face masks which have no mouth holes. If you’re going for a rustic feel, you might try getting a wooden dowel or stick wrapped in rawhide leather and shoving it in the submissive’s mouth to bite down on. There are also tools a BDSM escort can use that have the opposite intent. Instead of keeping an individual’s mouth closed, they keep it open. Such devices, called mouth spreaders, look like something out of a dental horror movie. And that’s the point. They keep the individual’s mouth open at all times so that various implements may be inserted, or simply to enhance the feelings of helplessness and discomfort that many BDSM enthusiasts crave. There are many other tools at the BDSM escorts disposal, things such as nipple clamps, thumb screws, leg bars, tourniquets, anal plugs, and a host of other toys. There is also a lot of apparel that has become synonymous with BDSM, mostly things having to do with black leather and latex. We can’t go over all of them here, but if the above descriptions have piqued your interest, there are resources, both online and in print, which can help you gain even more knowledge and proficiency with the tools of a BDSM escort. I encourage you to read and investigate as much as you can, because the more you know about the BDSM culture, the better you’ll perform as a BDSM escort. Author: http://blog.adultfairground.com |